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Rule #2 Don’t be a cliché – he doesn’t need to know your life plan on a first date.Having said that, if you are a dating a guy who is clearly a player or just in it for a bit of fun, stop wasting your time. So, we have the delights of bills, work stress, some people have children from previous relationships, home improvements, health worries and so much more.
Try out the shy guy whose sense of humor you have to draw out.
Just imagine being back in your 20-year-old self – feels good, doesn’t it? Most importantly you are an individual, you’ve carved out your life and you’re a little set in your ways. Finding a partner was easy in your twenties, you’re free to settle where you please, save the little money you both have and eventually buy a house, and build your careers together. Most if not all my friends have settled in their twenties, they love to hear about my dating dilemmas but can’t fathom why I can’t seem to settle. Thanks to internet sites bursting with people looking for dates, you’re never be hard pushed to find one.
You don’t have a care in the world, no serious job, money was spent on clothes, shoes and gin, there wasn’t a mortgage payment in sight and you’re pretty sure your mum will have done all your washing, and have dinner on the table. It’s once you’ve found someone, who meshes with your personality and who completely get you and you them, does the hard work starts; fitting into that person’s life and them fitting into yours is astronomically hard. One may like to go to bed at 10pm and the other can’t sleep until the early hours of the morning or one has responsibilities such as children from a previous relationship and the other doesn’t.
CEO of a successful start-up, with your young-adult novel trilogy being turned into movies by your 35th birthday? It's great to, well, lean in—but many thirty-something women will admit that time seems to rapidly accelerate when in your 30s.
So while you should keep those sky-high goals close to your heart, you also have to hold yourself accountable for not missing out on something else you really want—like marriage and kids.